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Hi, I'm Melissa...

I am an author, homeschooling mom, speaker, and belief coach who inspires wisdom in others through my

BELIEVE | SAY | DO | THINK process, which helps transform thoughts and words into action, so we can live a courageous and confident life through Christ. The Unhackable Mindset© courses will challenge you to walk away from the things that "hack" you and help you recognize and prevent those hacks from gaining full access to your life!

I am passionate about children & young people maintaining or recovering a mindset that leads them into the confidence they were born with, before the world started chipping away at who they were called to be.

BELIEVE | SAY | DO | THINK

I care about parents protecting or establishing the confidence to lead their homes and love their family in Godly authority.

I desire to encourage educators by facilitating them with the tools they need to renew their passion and enthusiasm by which they can breathe life and hope into their students.

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BELIEVE | SAY | DO | THINK 

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Careful what you
BELIEVE

WORDS

Careful what you
SAY

ACTIONS

Careful what you
DO

THOUGHTS

Careful what you
THINK

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Contact me to schedule a visit to your library, school, organization, or to speak at your next event. I speak to groups of all ages.

 

1) The Unhackable Mindset© program guides us to shape what we Believe | Say | Do | Think  

2) Confidence

3) Power of our Beliefs, Words, Actions and Thoughts.

4) Faith 

5) Surrender

6) Overcoming Adversities

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
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Monika Polefka-Proulx

If you’re looking to raise children with values, love and guidance, then Melissa Ray is your resource.

Her 4 part program helped me reduce my impulsive actions, be more conscious of my belief systems and how what I say, do and think impacts those around me. Her easy method of encouragement and guidance was a blessing to experience. Thanks for sharing your gift!

Author, Speaker & Coach

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Dr. Joanette Weisse

The Fence Post is a wisdom-packed story from another era.  The era of Melissa's grandfather.  Even though the wisdom and teachings are from by-gone days they are still relevant, insightful, and teach kids to be thoughtful toward others and kind to themselves.  Children everywhere can relate to these simple truths. 

Dr. Joanette, International best-selling author of the Giggles in my Heart series of children's books about emotions and feelings.  drjoanette.com

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Jennifer Raskin

This charming book brings to life the reason why we must all think before we act. While it's a good story for children of reading age, adults will also be smitten with this touching tale. Kids will also enjoy the adorable illustrations within though the heartbeat of the story revolving around a father and his son helps us remember to ultimately be kind. It's a beautiful book to read together as a family. 

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